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“You're living the journey of your life, A...

Dec 12th

“It's either you expect the best, & have the...

Dec 12th

Dec 6th

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9 Tips in Life that Lead to Happiness.

Are you truly happy? Do you even know what it means to be happy and what it takes to achieve happiness? These are important questions for anyone who is seeking happiness to ask themselves. I live my life to maintain my own happiness while trying my best to not cause unhappiness to anyone else. If you want to be happy you need to understand that you can be happy and that you should be happy. Many...

Dec 6th

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Mental Note.

Understand no matter what type of relationship you build with someone. Expectations that worse can occur does not make you negative. It raises the possibility that your theory of “impossible” is quite well… possible. Bonds attained individually that you categorize as unbreakable, may have cracks on the walls, a few leaks & with time can wear out & go through an age...

Dec 6th

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Top Five Regrets of the Dying

For many years I worked in palliative care. My patients were those who had gone home to die. Some incredibly special times were shared. I was with them for the last three to twelve weeks of their lives. People grow a lot when they are faced with their own mortality. I learned never to underestimate someone’s capacity for growth. Some changes were phenomenal. Each experienced a variety of...

Dec 6th

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Gossip

A woman repeated a bit of gossip about a neighbor. Within a few days the whole community knew the story. The person it concerned was deeply hurt and offended. Later the woman responsible for spreading the rumor learned that it was completely untrue. She was very sorry and went to a wise old sage to find out what she could do to repair the damage. “Go to the marketplace,” he said,...

Dec 6th

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on my high horse for a reason.

I often catch myself in constant wonder of why i have these beliefs. The frame of mind I’ve set myself in having, Trust issues & inquiring doubt. Especially if people are involved. I hold my opinions and beliefs in high regards above all. We definitely need to learn how to comprehend what’s best for ourselves and what makes us acquire our true bliss without having to sell our...

Dec 5th

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The Notebook Sort of.

That scene in the end where they both lay in bed & in the morning they were found holding hands & died together. It was beautiful. The way true love was portrayed & acted. In a sense, it was just that a beautiful scene, movie, and well played actors & script. December 4th. My grandmother passed away. She was bed bound for 2 months. She was ill & very weak. She is now in a...

Dec 5th

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Roller Coaster weekend.

FRIDAY: This weekend was definitely a roller coaster of emotions. Friday night i lay restless. I was having flash backs of someone who once played an important part of my life. YEARS will play a huge role in ones relationship. The longer you have them around, the more memories, conversations & closeness you share with them. Distance or not, if someone made a big impact in your life, every...

Dec 5th

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